This article isn't about rupture as announced but more about a positive outcome from dealing with others. Yes ... on the professional part.; My Blog's purpose is to give you advice about relationships, but there are other interesting subjects to discuss about according to the actual reality we are living in. Since my younger age and until now I have always been mad when I look or observe how teenagers or someone in the 20's wasting their lives unnecessarily. I mean, some stuff that of course I won't do because of my education, since my parents were very hard on me to get the results I am giving today.
I usually question myself about my point of view or the time it takes me to understand certain facts or apparent facts. Imagine a kid who just finished college and get fooled by close family; living away from her first family, in another country, a new reality..., take one second and Imagine the consequences of that FACT. A situation like that can lead to different figure of case :
Delinquincy
Prostitution
Drug Addiction
Early pregnancy
etc.
I was kind of mad observing at teenagers committing mistakes after mistakes, Hanging with people that would take her nowhere else than to the dawn of failure; and what's sad is these same people won't tell the just truth about her, but will tell worse so they can erase her past identity and cause that people start to see a venom in their circle. I've been a good observant and realized the origin of all that. In all different context, another country, another reality, her vulnerability was so pure that these people from the second family kind of raped the purest part of her soul and inducted in committing the worst mistake ever : thinking that men could be a solution to all her pain and struggle. Well sad reality some old school family in the high society where we are from in my country had this complex of belonging or status about the people their kids are getting along with. But starting with my generation things changed with us... a transition from hand writings to I-message, WhatsApp etc. Modernization has corrupted our old values and this is a sad situation. But some of the old ways lead so many young mem ad women to the wrong path.
To go back to the subject, myself as a professional photographer, I have a story to tell about these march i have climb instead of just taking an elevator. I have mad wrong choices in my life, some because of my immaturity, some because of my parents, but I forgive all this because I was just young. My first girlfriend in school had to obey to my mom's threats ( she was being overprotective over her son), well at the end when I was in school the message was " NO GIRLFRIEND FOR YOU" lol... but you know Kids when you tell them no... they will return you the " why " answer sometime without their voice but by just disobeying.
Why I'm telling all that is just because nowadays the Generation of teenagers are more advanced or let say have a larger open door on thinking for their own interests, which might be a good thing but according to current depravation most of them wont use their smart will to do good but may of them to commit fraud, fake IDs, etc.
Well People My Sister is one of the most precious thing I possess in this world after my kids, I was mad at her couple times for her choices but now I see her on another perspective according to the sense of wisdom, She has to struggle every single day to live and to raise her two beautiful daughters without a father to take his responsibility, yes she ended up being a single mother, not because of her wrong choice but because of a lack of guidance in a New foreign environment where she was vulnerable. She is an example for me and on this note I'm renewing my appreciation to all the single mothers of the world for their amazing work. I have witnessed all your valuable achievements in this world where the balance is totally disrupted and corrupted.
ADVISE : Don't ever let your situation or others injustice drag you down to a mental failure where you can forget yourself. Yourself, and yourself first will be your first best friend.
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